How To Support Your Teen Applying to College

The college application process can feel overwhelming for both students and their parents. While it’s an exciting time, it also comes with a lot of decisions, deadlines, and emotions. As a parent, your support can make a huge difference in helping your teen navigate this journey with confidence. Here are some ways you can provide the right balance of guidance and encouragement.

1. Start Early 

Encourage your teen to start thinking about colleges early in high school. That doesn’t mean you need to have frequent conversations about college, but instead have casual conversations. Helpful topics include which classes your student likes best, majors/careers related to their interests, or how they can stay organized throughout the process. 

2. Encourage Independence

While it’s natural to want to help, it’s important that your teen takes ownership of the process. Encourage them to research schools, write their own essays, and communicate with admissions offices. This is an added bonus of working with LeSage College Consulting; it allows for you to step back while Katherine provides the support and expertise students need. 

3. Manage Stress and Expectations

The application process can be stressful, especially when dealing with deadlines and potential rejections. Encourage healthy study habits, breaks, and stress-relieving activities. Remind your teen that college admissions are not a reflection of their worth, and that there are many paths to success.

4. Discuss Finances Openly

Have an honest conversation about college costs, financial aid options, and your budget. Understanding the financial aspect early can prevent surprises later.

5. Celebrate Every Step

Whether it’s the first college tour, submitting the first application or receiving an acceptance letter, celebrate their efforts. Acknowledging their hard work—regardless of the outcome—will keep their confidence up throughout the process.

In the end, applying to college is a milestone for both teens and parents. Remember, your role is to guide, encourage, and celebrate—letting them take the lead as they step into their future.